Thursday, March 14, 2013

Creating your own unique and fabulous voice - ART


I lived in NYC for six years and enjoyed every single moment of it. One of the things I admire so much about New York is that it is a place where you can literally create who you are. Individuality is embraced in Gotham. I've often joked that someone could walk down the street in a football jersey, a tutu, top hat and cowboy boots without causing one raised eyebrow. I also love the raw urban vibe that  like the subway courses through the veins of the city.  I'm going to NYC in April and can't wait to see what treasures I discover!!!



Happy To Be Nappy
Mary Turner
Artist: menobodyknows

 My very first BIG job in NYC was at Time Warner. After a few months of working there I decided to loc my hair. One day an artist came through who had done some commissioned work for the VP I was working for. He told me I reminded him of a piece he had done that was based it on an incident in his life. He'd made fun of a little girl who had kinky hair and had called her names. Years later he realized the wrong he had done to this young girl's psyche by making her feel less than because her hair was not long, straight and flowing. He entitled the piece "Happy To Be Nappy".  He came back a week later with the piece and a hand written note. I held on to it and years later got it framed. This piece hangs in my dining room.


Chea Warholized -  2007 S. Peter Campbell II

Graffiti is a shadow of what it once was, but still very much alive. Years ago I saw a picture of Diane von Furstenberg, the piece was done by Andy Warhol - I thought I want to do that!!! My good friend Pete Campbell did this treatment to one of my pictures and I absolutely adore it. It's so funky and edgy yet polished with the frame I chose. I think this piece is an accurate representation of me (well at least one part of me).



Foyer Péan Graffiti - 2012 S. Peter Campbell II

I recently got married and I wanted to get my husband a unique gift. He's Haitian/Jamaican/Cuban but raised in Brooklyn. I decided to revisit graffiti art. Pete Campbell once again worked his magic and the piece of above is the result. Done in French this 7x2 piece translates to: The Péan Homestead was established in 2012. LOVE!!!!



This framed Hérmes scarf is one of my favorite pieces of art. I've read about designers who get pillows made out of their Hérmes scarves - not me! The simple fact that I have one means I'm going to keep it in the best condition possible, hence framing it. 




 
                   


These pieces are from a series I have by Kadir Nelson. Kadir is a phenomenal DC born artist whose work is arresting. I was fortunate to purchase this series from a framer friend of mine. There are six pieces in total, here are two of my favorite.





Several years ago I went to the Art Of Elysium's offices in Los Angeles. Founded in 1997, AOE encourages actors, artists and musicians to volunteer their time and talents towards mentoring children who are battling serious medical conditions. While there I saw several copies of this piece on the floor. The bold pink color caught my eye as well at the checkerboard court jester look of it. As if the visuals weren't compelling enough, the story I was told behind the image almost took me out. This piece was done by a young Haitian boy who had been abandoned as a baby by his mother. He had been dumped in a trash can, lit on fire and left to die. Someone saw this happening, rescued him and he was later adopted by an American family. This trauma still haunted him and he was going through therapy many years later. This piece was created in his late teens. In spite of tragedy (and many may argue because of it), his artistry had amazing and arresting depth.



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Npeble - Uganda


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D. Walumsimbi - Uganda


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Uganda

In 2007 I traveled to Uganda on business. While there I met a family who were trying to get their child to the US for a life saving heart operation. Through the organization I was working for, I was able to arrange that operation. Rebecca (the mother) and Primrose (the child, 4 months old at the time) ended up come to Los Angeles and staying for 5 months with my father and stepmother. We developed a beautiful friendship/sistership over those months. She came back about a year or so later and stayed for about the same amount of time with my father and stepmother again. After she'd gotten home, she sent me a thank you package. These gorgeous original works were part of the bounty. We recently had them framed. I display these with pride. Primrose is now 7 years old and doing great. 




The Ties That Bind
Ridley 

This piece was a gift from my brother. My brother has an dope collection of art in his home.  I tried to capture it but couldn't really get it. As I think back, other than my mother my brother has influenced my collecting of art. My mother's art was nice but a bit predictable while my brother is a bit more adventurous. 


Museum Inspiration

When I lived in New York City, I worked at the Museum for African Art. Everyday was a visual adventure. My knowledge of African Art was so expansive by the time I left there. 


Bamikele Headress - Cameroon

I first spied this Bamileke Feather Headress while working at MFAA. It is so regal and alive! This piece was etched in my memory. Years later (eleven to be exact) I was walking through Leimert Park Village and saw it hanging on a wall at Queen Aminah's Sister's Marketplace. I was so excited - and when I heard the price, elated! The community is good for a great deal. If you live near LA you MUST visit Leimert Park. There is a treasure trove of finds there. From clothing, to art, to books....you cannot lose.


Barbershop Sign - Ghana

There's a huge storage facility right across from Chelsea Piers that's a gem of a resource in NYC that not too many people know of. Everyday African vendors sell the most amazing authentic works of art for a fraction of what you would pay elsewhere. I was able to get quite a few things I fell in love with while working at the MFAA that I would never have been able to afford. I purchased this African barbershop piece there. It is authentic, organic and eclectic. It hangs in our bathroom. 

Travels

Whenever I travel, I make it a point to visit local markets, artisan posts, etc. Invariably something catches my eye and finds it's way into my carry on luggage. The great thing about shopping for art/clothing/jewelry abroad is that you are not likely to find it anywhere else AND most times you can get it for way cheaper than you would here were you to find it.



Female form - South Africa 2002

I bought this form while visiting South Africa. It's iron so it's pretty hefty. I think it's sexy and powerful. You can't tell from the picture but it's got this gorgeous bronze color and this funky texture.

                                                              Gordita - Ecuador 2006   

I bought the second piece at a flea market in Guayaquil, Ecuador. Her heft does not bother her one bit. Her confidence is apparent. She hangs in our bathroom just above our tub.


Porcupine Quill Lampshade - South Africa 2002

This is a lampshade made of real porcupine quills. This was purchased in South Africa as well. The bases would have been to costly to ship so I just had them wrap up the shades and brought them in my carry on. Between this and the iron form my arms were done by the end of the trip. 


***FRAMING***

If you haven't noticed, I believe in framing.  NEVER underestimate the power of a great frame. The right frame will take your art to a whole other level. My go to guy in Los Angeles is Picture Frames by  Rolando. He can be reached at: rollen17@yahoo.com or 323-228-9977. He loves what he does and it shows. Even better, he never gauges you on price. 



Collecting and displaying art is the singular most powerful way to share: who you are, what moves you and your experiences with everyone who walks into your home. When buying art, trust your gut. Purchase that which is a reflection of the complexity and simplicity that make you, you! 





Monday, March 4, 2013

Style: Creating your own unique and fabulous voice - JEWELRY




Ok, so as many of you know I am a first generation American  of Liberian and Guyanese descent. My father is 100% uncut from the motherland. My mother a mix - 25% East Indian 25% European, 50% African. I grew up in San Francisco during the 70's and 80's - went to boarding school in Santa Cruz, and since then have lived in New York, DC, Georgia and Tennessee. In addition to that, I've been blessed to travel to Africa, Europe, the Caribbean, Australia and beyond.  These travels, this exposure and subsequent cultural mélange is reflected in my every day life - food, decor, dress, sensibilities.....everything.  How I dress, how I decorate, how I cook is a form of expression. Expression is a reflection of the soul - what you feel, what you think, who you are.

In 2013 there's not much we can do that is original, but unique is a different story. You can take something that already exists but in your own way display it or wear it such a way that makes it all your own.  I was blessed with a great eye for detail and am able to spot what's chic. Know that chic and trendy are NOT the same thing. Chic does not expire, trendy does. But more than anything, my approach to style is buy what you love! Find an inspiration piece and build around it. Buy art, fabric, belts, jewelry, furnishings that move your soul. That is the way to create your own unique voice!  

I've decided to do a four part series on creating your own unique voice through jewelry, footwear, clothing, art/furnishings. Here we go!

JEWELRY


Necklace: BCBG 
African Form: Liberia circa 1960


Jewelry: Various - vintage finds, Anthropologie, Badgley Mischka, LAMB, Messi Jilly


Necklace: Custom by local artisan in San Francisco


I LOVE every single piece of jewelry here. I love the colors, textures, stories....My favorite piece of all is the bottom piece. Every bit of who I am and who I aspire to be is reflected in these pieces. I got most of the pieces for next to nothing. I am an avid Ebayer. If you take the time you can find quite a few gems on here. I'm also a fan of mixing high end and low end pieces to create a one of a kind look.  I've made major scores on the sale stands at Anthropologie, Zara and Nordstrom Rack - there's no need to pay full price. Some of my least expensive pieces make the biggest statement. Not everyone can wear oversized pieces, and that's ok. Figure out what works for your frame - but don't be afraid of taking risks. Bottom line, if you like it, go for it. 

Favorite online jewelry haunts:

Ebay.com  - Make sure you refine your search as much as possible. There are literally millions of items on ebay. The more specific you are about what your searching for the better your chances of finding it.

Topshop.com - Great style at very affordable prices. They do trendy well. 

Anthropologie.com - I've found some AMAZING pieces at Anthropologie on the sale racks. The FABULOUS pieces never go on sale but are chic, timeless and otherworldly. Worth it when you want to splurge.

Etsy.com - A treasure trove for artisan like pieces. Like ebay, you need to be very specific in what you're looking for. Etsy specializes in one of a kinds - this is the place to get something no one else will have!

Zara.com - Chic, edgy, classic all can be found at Zara. They really have cornered the market in interpreting what the major designers are doing at an accessible price point. This means you can literally look like a million bucks for less than $40. 







Monday, February 25, 2013

Count your blessings!

Whew - when I said I was taking a breather, I  REALLY meant it. So much has happened since I last blogged. Lest you think I am bragging - know that what follows are PURELY the blessings of God's unmitigated favor. Isaiah 64:6 tells us that "our righteousness is as filthy rags". In other words, there is nothing we can do to earn God's favor. We simply ask and He does as He wills. Those of you who have followed this blog know that I went through quite a rough patch. I give praise and honor to God that He has restored me beyond measure.

As I thought back over the time since I last blogged, I thought of ALL the blessings the Lord has showered on me. There are so many, I'd be writing forever if I listed them all. Here are a few that really stand out.

1. Met the man of my dreams - a Haitian/Jamaican, Godly HUNK of a man! It should be noted that I truly believe that he is a direct result of the prayers of a few but mighty.











2. I became a recording artist. My church, Breath Of Life Worship Center in Inglewood, CA recorded our first project! I was fortunate be a soloist on the project and sang the lead on "Even Me". Please support this ministry!!! The link is below!


The Bol Worship Center | Excellence: a Praise and Worship Experience | CD Baby Music Store

3. Had my first ever cross country road trip with the man of my dreams. No one got put out the car, we arrived in Los Angeles even more in love than when we started AND we juiced the whole way!





4. Professionalized my natural ability to cook by becoming a private chef and caterer.



 


5. Got engaged! This is a testimony in and of itself. And the ring? Can you believe it?



6. Married the man of my dreams (privately) at City Hall in San Francisco. I found out later that my parents got married there as well before their public wedding. Neat, huh? Also, while there a budding photographer offered to take our pictures for FREE! He took over 50 of them. Ain't God good?





7. Had an AMAZING international, festive and fabulous New Year's Eve wedding at Hotel Figueroa in downtown Los Angeles












8. Moved into a lovely spanish style home in historic Leimert Park and have decorated it in an eclectic, diasporamuse mélange of my husband's culture and my own. Him (Haitian/Jamaican), me (Guyanese/Liberian). We both love to entertain and frequently host dinners where we share our favorite recipes.







9. Stay tuned...I believe it's only going to get better - Jeremiah 29:11


Wednesday, March 9, 2011

Sittin' By The Dock Of A Bay





When you harbor bitterness, happiness will dock elsewhere. 
Learn to forgive fully and love unconditionally.

Bitterness is easy. We've all been wronged - terribly wronged. If you haven't been terribly disappointed, if you haven't been heartbroken, you haven't  lived.  I can remember in my late 20's I was hurt to the core by a guy I was totally taken with. We started dating shortly after my mother was diagnosed with cancer. To date, I've yet to meet a man that i've connected with intellectually, culturally and emotionally like I did with him. I can recall laughing with him until I was sure I'd embarrass myself once the puddle beneath became apparent. We'd talk hours upon hours - while I was getting dressed, while I was cooking, while I was breathing, while....Many of you remember getting phone bills WAY before bundle deals from the phone company. We averaged $600 phone bills. Every waking moment was sweeter because HE was in my life. We got each other, really got each other. I thought "this is what it feels like when you've met the one". Little did I know  that the entire time we were dating, "my one" had "someone" who wasn't me. Apparently, this guy was a multi-tasking fool. While that was deeply disappointing, even more disappointing was the Houdini like disappearing act he pulled when my mother was in her final hours of life. My expectation of his support was based on the relationship that I THOUGHT we had. His ability to totally separate himself emotionally from what I was going through was based on the relationship he DID have with someone else.   To find this out while dealing with the loss of my mother was devastating. I was officially bitter.


I became a skilled orator on how I'd been done wrong. If you gave me 5 minutes, I'd give you the cliff notes on my erstwhile love affair. I told my story time AND time AND time AND time again.  I'm actually embarrassed to think of the eyes that must've rolled when people saw me coming - Debbie downer in the flesh. I was so focused on rehashing, recounting, reliving and remembering the past that I missed out on more than I care to imagine.  My hurts lasted longer than the relationship. While I lamented, HE moved forward with his "one", got engaged and married. During this time, I honestly thought I'd moved on. I dated - quite a bit. None of those guys worked out. Hmmm, I wonder why? One guy even told me "you know I really like you, but you seem to still have very strong feelings for your ex. Maybe you should see if that relationship can be revived." Nice guy, right? Understanding guy, right? Yeah, I missed the boat on that one. I docked my bitterness at every single solitary port that beckoned me. 


One day, a good friend of mine and someone who actually pursued me romantically during my ministry of bitterness, said to me "Cynthia, you really need to get past this. Do you realize how unattractive you're making yourself? I mean how many times are you going to tell this story? What is it really doing for you"? That was my "aha" moment  - and miraculously my bitterness, bit the dust.  Since that time, I've not told that story, the story of unrequited love and bitterness. I can't even remember much of it. When I think of him now, I DO recall the laughter, the butterflies, the dreams of "what if". I remember the good.
There's a saying "by beholding we become changed". Those words are powerfully true. Whatever you choose to meditate on, make a priority will effect you. That's why in Philippians Paul tell us to think on the positive, the pure, the true, the just. A downward, bitter spiral is as close as your thoughts.


I have yet to meet my mate - but rest assured I am ready. My dock is free and clear from all bitterness and ready for all the happiness it can handle.  How about you? Is there anything you've been harboring far too long? Let it go, forgive those who've hurt you (memo- you've likely broken a heart or two yourself. Do unto others as you would have them do unto you). Behold the positive, behold the possibilities - you might be pleasantly surprised who and what cozy's up to your dock. 






                               

Thursday, March 3, 2011

Eyecandy II & Earcandy I


Cesaria Evora. Afro-Portugese music at its best. 

          I don't have an i-phone, but I'm considering getting one JUST  so I can put this on it!
                                                               Rawson IPhone Case                      



Vintage Convertible Fur. What an AMAZING concept. Love this.






Tracee Ellis Ross - I adore her style. I want EVERYTHING in her closet!



Lauryn Hill. Millions love her. So do I.




Shoe Fairy - are you taking notes?
Louboutin - Fastissima






Donny Hathaway. No one, no voice compares.


Before even seeing the name of this shoe, I thought "this shoe is sensibly wicked". 
  Spikes + kitten heels. LOVE!
The name of the shoe? Louboutin -  Lucifer Bow